First, his emotional temperature will have all of a sudden seemed different. Maybe he has withdrawn emotionally and he appears more distant these days. This could be thanks to the fact that he is pulling himself away from his relationship with you out of guilt. On the other hand, he may also be acting much better to you as well out of guilt.

Each man is unique, so I can’t tell you precisely how he’ll react, but there are two things in common here. One, he feels guilty, and second, this may change how he is emotionally responding to you. If your man suddenly seems to have a new emotional temperature, either good or bad, then it is worth digging deeper to work out what is going on.

Next, there will be a rise in unexplained absences. If your partner is cheating on you, he is going to find the time to do it. This means that he is going to be around less often. But the main clue is when these absences become unanticipated.

Perhaps he just comes home late from work without telling you, or perhaps he seems to offer you too much detail that you didn’t ask for. Either way, these are clear signs that he is hiding something. There isn’t very much transparency in your marriage if this kind of thing is going on. And if transparency is lacking, then there is a reasonable chance that something is being hidden.

Third, your man appears defensive about “evidence.” If your husband is having an affair, then he is usually going to keep the proof from you. Almost all of the evidence is hidden away on the computer or in the postal mail that gets delivered to your home.

Has he taken a strong interest in the bills? Credit card bills and telephone bills can frequently leave a damning trail. He may try and keep you in the dark by paying the bills early and on time so that you don’t get a look at them and see all the stuff he has been up to. Also, there might be other stuff delivered in the mail that would give away his affair.

These are all things that cheating husbands do. But it’s very important to bear in mind that because he could be hiding something doesn’t necessarily mean that he is cheating. For all you know, he might be organizing a surprise party for you. But still, if he’s acting odd, it is worth digging down deeper to uncover what is actually happening with him for the sake of your marriage.

If you found this helpful, be sure to check out: The Other Woman in an Affiar and Husband Having an Affair for more information on how to deal with your cheating husband.

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