Experiencing Your First Contact With Russian Women Online

Author: Mark De Schutter, September 28th, 2009

Making your first contact with Russian women online can be easier than you might think at first. You are simply looking to a woman to talk to a little, listen to a bit, and engage in conversation with over a period of time. It doesn’t have to be a serious exploit to run off and find a wife within the first week. This is just about making first contact with Russian women. Keep it in perspective and you will do just fine.

You are looking for a Russian woman because you are looking for someone that fits a particular profile. There is nothing wrong with that. Over 80% of long term relationships these days start online and most are done through some sort of cold contact. Don’t let your imagination run wild at the sight of her photo.

Letting your mind build her up into an imaginary woman is not going to help you develop a strong, real relationship with her. Instead, let things progress naturally. Trying to fit her into a preconceived mold is likely to end badly for both of you.

Remember that all you’re doing is talking. There doesn’t have to be any expectation beyond that. By removing expectation and having just a normal getting to know you conversation you and she will be able to relax and have a much easier time talking to each other. Remember that long pauses while you are online are generally a sign that you’re not paying attention or that you don’t like the conversation. Be courteous and respond appropriately.

Asking her a lot of questions that prod answers that reveal something about herself is a fun way to go about it. If you can get her to chat about herself, her thoughts and feelings, and her viewpoints you have the golden opportunity to come across like someone who is genuinely interested in her feelings just as you have the opportunity to learn all about who she really is.

Developing these relationships take some time. You can’t just jump into a ready made relationship online. This is a common mistake that many men make when they have their first contact with Russian women online. Many men expect that she will be ready and willing to start a serious relationship with you. Yes, it happens instantaneously for some, but most men and women need some time to develop a relationship that they are comfortable with.

Ask her about her feelings. Ask her how she feels about talking with you and ask her if she is comfortable. The more you consider her feelings in the process the more she will respond with honesty.

Ask her about how she feels. Remember that she has a lot of different emotions, thoughts, and belief systems that would benefit you to know. The more you are interested in talking to her about her opinions and how she views the world, the more you end up getting to know her. Over the period of just a couple of weeks, you can end up knowing someone very well if you ask enough questions and you listen carefully to the response.

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