Top Reasons Why Your Partner Commit Infidelity
Kade G. Swasey, November 5th, 2009 Women regardless of age have been asking the same thing: why men cheat? This age-old question still has puzzled the female population, or at least those who had experienced it first-hand.
Top reasons why men cheat are as follows:
They are is something missing Men and women are similar, their emotions need to be attended even though you think they don’t.
Men want to be constantly reassured that they are appreciated and loved. Without reassurance from their partner, men feel unworthy and begin to drift from attachment.What happens is, they seek attention from someone who can give them what they need.
It’s in the blood
Animal shows on tv is enough to give you a clear picture on the reason why men act the way they do. The testosterone-filled creature’s main job, aside from protecting the clan is to guarantee that his bloodline continues. Meaning, it is a trend that men knocks on someone else’s hut just to continue his genes. However, this does not mean that men are predestined to cheat; despite his biology, men need to fight it-especially after a night of beer and a couple of shots of Jack.
To end the relationship Many guys don’t know how to say to their partner that it is over- they simply don’t have the guts to end it. Probably because they don’t like making the first move or don’t want to be the “jerk who ended something good”. Instead, they try to tip-toe around to get their woman give up and end the relationship.
To spice up his life a bit Once married a man (or a married woman) is expected not to flirt around other for the rest of his life, or at least until he is legally separated.However, it is in his genes to look for something different. Think of your relationship as a single loop of playlist where you have to listen to it over and over again; time will come when you have to look for something new. You will update your own playlist, but if you can’t get it from your wife, outside is the only place to go.
To get attention Men do not cheat simply because they need to have sex with another woman.
Sure, they have sex with other woman/women but that’s not the sole reason why men cheat cheat. Men need attention but if it is not available at home, time will come that will get out and seek attention to someone else’s home. Seeing you naked will do the trick for a while but what’s important is to make him feel worthy of more than just shovelling the snow off your driveway.
Ivan Tart is a blogger and marriage counselor. He has been very active in solving marital problems and providing women answers to different questions regarding relationship including, why men cheat.
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