Maybe you’ve even had a few friends with this almost magical X factor.

What exactly is it? What’s it called?

It’s called charisma.

Have you ever wondered: is charisma some innate quality you’re born with or is it something you can develop?

Most people think it is an innate quality.

Hogwash – anyone can become more charismatic.

Today I’m going to share two qualities you can develop that will make you more charismatic.

1) Being More Mysterious:

There are two sides to this.

The first is manifesting attributes about yourself that are at odds with each other.

An example of a charismatic political leader with contradictory personality traits is Peter the Great. He was both cruel and kind.

When you manifest traits that are at odds with each other people cannot pigeonhole you.

When they cannot figure you out, they become entranced.

The second aspect is being uncanny.

When people think you have supernatural powers they see you as charismatic.

This is why cult leaders and some political stewards (in some parts of the world) are perceived by others as possessing charisma.

2) Inspiring Others To Be Better Than They Are:

If you can goad a person into seeing themselves as better than they currently are, they will see you as charismatic. If you can spur them to take action on this realization, they’ll see you as a super charismatic person.

John F. Kennedy was a master at this.

He spellbound America when he said, “It’s not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.”

That’s because he inspired people to be better than they are.

Here’s your homework assignment:

1) Write down two of your personality traits that are in contradiction with one another. Instead of trying to conceal them, develop them and flaunt them.

2) Think of how you can reframe what people say to inspire them to be better than they are.

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